Another trip to New York, this time including Syracuse and Albany as well as Hollowville and Greenwich Village.
Syracuse:
My
friend Pat took me to the Stone Quarry Art Park outside of town where
an artist had made a room-sized ship out of piled newspapers anchored to
living young trees. It had been out there a while and was weathering so
it looked like wood and peeling bark till you got up close and saw
print in the cracks. Almost like paper turning back into the wood it
came from.
My
friend Mara took me to coffee at the coffee bar formerly known as
Federal Espresso. Federal Express, somewhat lacking in sense of humor,
threatened to sue. The coffee bar, sense of humor intact, renamed itself
Freedom of Espresso.
I met Mara’s friend Eli, he of “playing Julia Butterfly Hill.”
He’s four and, when we met, a serious firefighter. The packing box the
water heater came in had become an apartment house he rescued people
from. Now, I hear, he’s an astronaut.
Albany:
Mara
and I went to the Children’s Music Network gathering at a Holiday Inn
in Albany. Great people, plastic surroundings. Luckily, right next to
the hotel, surrounded by strip mall and fast food, was another coffee
place, Professor Java’s Coffee Sanctuary, in one of two remaining real
houses on the ticky-tacky street, where we could escape the artificial
air and long hallways.
For the last eight years, the Children’s Music Network has given a Magic Penny Award to an outstanding contributor to children’s music. The award is named after my mother’s song and she was, posthumously, the first recipient. I accepted for her, and wrote an article about her for CMN’s journal, Pass It On. This year, the 20th anniversary of the founding of CMN, the award was given to Sarah Pirtle,
who first had the idea of an organization of people who used children’s
music “as a powerful means of encouraging cooperation, celebrating
diversity, building self-esteem, promoting respect and responsibility
for our environment, and cultivating an understanding of nonviolence and
social justice.” Sarah was the first editor of Pass It On. She has done
great work using music, and especially group songwriting, to help
children learn to get along with each other and mediate disputes. Her
book Linking Up: Using Music, Movement, and Language Arts to Promote Caring, Cooperation, and Communication
gives practical suggestions, and songs, for working towards CMN’s
goals. The first song of hers I learned was a silly one, “The Woman Who
Gobbled Swiss Cheese,” introduced to me by Ginni Clemmens in Chicago in
1976 when I did my first swing around the country in my van telling
stories. It was Sarah’s first song.
Hudson and Hollowville:
I
took the train down the Hudson River to the town of Hudson, where I met
Claudia, who was coming up on the train from New York City. We went
then to Claudia’s sister Susan’s house about twenty minutes east in the
little village of Hollowville. Hollowville is just houses and a tiny
post office, no stores. Alas, the natural food store in Hudson was
recovering from a fire so we were shopping in supermarkets...but also
eating out in Hudson at the Red Dot, Mexican Radio, and the WonderBar.
Here’s the historical marker on the motel across from the WonderBar:
WARREN INN
In 1958 on this historic site the first motel ever
converted from a movie theater and located
in a small community was opened.
It’s signed by Warren Inn Mngmt Group 4, which seems to have different standards from mine about what’s historical.
Susan
died in April, and we were busy then with her apartment in Greenwich
Village. Now we were at her country cottage so Claudia could go through
old family photographs and papers and take what she didn’t already have
copies of. I was along as dishwasher and hand-holder.
The
first weekend we were there Margaret, my best friend from third and
fourth and seventh grade drove down from Burlington, Vermont for our
first visit in over twenty years. She didn’t mind driving down. Driving
is her thing. She was a taxi driver in New York City, then drove an
airport limo in Vermont, and now, at seventy-three, she’s driving a van
around the university campus in Burlington, taking students from place
to place. She’s a great one for the job, outgoing and funny. I reminded
her that she used to make faces at me when we were doing arithmetic
flash cards in class, making me laugh out loud and get in trouble. She
reminded me that I had made up a new letter for the alphabet (this was
before Dr. Seuss’ On Beyond Zebra).
I had entirely forgotten this—neither of us could remember the
letter—but it does sound like me. We both remembered spelling our names
backward. I envied hers: Teragram NoskcaJ sounded so much better than
Ycnan Sdlonyer.
Here’s
why the gap between fourth and seventh grades. My family had lived in
apartments around Emerson School in Berkeley for as long as I could
remember. Then, in the last years of World War II, when my parents had
saved enough money—my carpenter father building the ways to make Liberty
Ships in and my mother making bomb casings—they bought a house. In
another neighborhood. I loved the house—it was old and big and had a
dilapidated barn in the back—but I hated leaving Margaret and our
favorite teacher, Mrs. Carney, in the middle of the year to go to a
different school. I had a great time with the kids on my new block,
playing circus in the big basement of one family, trading comic books,
but I don’t remember school at all, except learning to make folded paper
cootie catchers and water bombs from the other kids.
Then
it got worse. My grandfather, the naval tailor in Long Beach, died the
next year. My grandmother came to live with us but couldn’t stand being
away from her work and her friends, on top of losing her husband. He had
made friends easily while she did not. So we moved to Long Beach, and
my parents started running my grandparents’ naval tailor shop. They
found a smaller house where I had to share a room with my grandmother
instead of having one of my own. I made friends on the block, we somehow
survived playing in trenches we’d dug in a sandy lot, but I don’t
remember school there either, except that may be the one where we had a
pretend bank in the room. We never had a bank in our classroom in
Berkeley.
It
got worse yet. My parents bought a bigger house, but the people in it
still hadn’t moved out when we had to vacate the house we’d just sold,
so we had to stay with friends in a raw new subdivision with no lawns or
trees. People had moved in faster than schools were built for them, so
the schools were on double session. I didn’t have a room of my own in
this house that wasn’t our own, and at school I didn’t have a desk of my
own. I was in the afternoon session, so there was no time to play after
school. I did not make friends with the kids on that block. I don’t
remember how many weeks we were there. I don’t remember the people we
stayed with nor what the inside of the house looked like nor any of the
kids I saw in school. I only remember that the whole neighborhood looked
as unsettled as I felt. We finally moved into a substantial old
brown-shingle house near the center of town with a real front porch with
room for a swing and windows in my bedroom that I could climb out of.
But
the school? Not Berkeley. The fifth grade teacher told me I had to
paint the background of my paper plate faking Mexican pottery black, not
brown, because Mexican pottery was black. Well, some is, but the
casserole my parents had bought on one of our trips to Baja was brown.
In Berkeley studying the California Indians we’d made real baskets out
of reed and raffia, we didn’t fake with paper plates. In Long Beach the
sixth grade teacher played a record of the Volga Boat Song and told us
all Russian music was sad. I raised my hand. “We go folk dancing,” I
said, “to Russian music that’s lively and fun,” or words to that effect.
It went on like this. Looking back, I’d call it culture shock.
The
naval tailor shop was in Long Beach because the fleet was there.
Margaret’s father was in the navy. I didn’t put the two together, so I
was completely surprised when Margaret showed up in Long Beach in the
seventh grade. Not in the same school, but we could hang out together.
Every time we did, we kept saying the same thing at the same time. My
mother had taught me a rhyme to say when you do that, each person saying
alternate lines:
Needles,
Pins,
When a man marries his trouble begins.
What goes up the chimney?
Smoke.
Our wish will never be broke.
Then you make a wish.
In
Hollowville, Margaret regaled us with her wheeled adventures. She’d
spent a month motorcycle camping down the Maritimes with a friend. When
she was on a photo safari in Africa they were short handed and needed
another driver. She was the only one with a commercial license, so she
got to drive the Land Rover across country on barely visible tracks. I
had last visited her about twenty-five years ago when she lived in New
York City. Before that, we hadn’t seen each other in thirty-seven years.
Here’s how we found each other then:
My
mother had a gig at the Full Moon, a women’s coffee house that thrived
during the seventies in my neighborhood in San Francisco. I did a
feminist paper-folding story as part of the show. Afterwards, a woman
came up to me and said, “I bring greetings from Margaret Jackson.” My
jaw hit the floor. This was a friend of Margaret’s who knew she had been
friends with Malvina Reynolds’ daughter. (Margaret was into music, as
well as wheeled vehicles.) She didn’t have Margaret’s address with her,
but took mine, and we wrote thirty-seven-year-catch-up letters.
This is another perk of having a famous parent—old friends can find you. (This was Before Google.)
Next time: New York City and back home to Berkeley.
©2007 by Nancy Schimmel